The Solution
"Life isn’t about finding yourself; it’s about creating yourself.” - Coco Chanel
I’ve always heard that the key to success is persistence. Worded that way it may be a useless cliché. I’ve come to regard persistence as the vehicle of success. And the fuel is learning. Without the ability to figure out what’s working or not – and apply that knowledge to the next effort – no one is going anywhere. At least not where they want to go.
Now, my life is not what I would love it to be but I do love life! I’ve changed so much and continue to move toward my aspirations and goals. And it’s because of one simple Method of Operation; I look for opportunities, and then I take advantage of them – all the time. A lot of people don’t understand this, they think they should do what they always do, usually be reserved and they shouldn’t shine. When I did like that I did not feel good about myself.
If I lived that way I’d probably wouldn’t want to live at all, or at least I’d bide my time until I could live better. Because I tell you this – life is for living! A big problem for people is they’re worried about what others will think of them, the real problem they have is what they themselves are thinking! No one else will manifest your dreams for you, but some people will help you do it – if you ask.
“Believe that you are the one who creates your success, that you are the one who creates your mediocrity, and that you are the one creating your struggle around money and success.” - T. Harv Eker
Here’s half the solution; the time to start anything is right now. Even if it’s just planning (real written planning - not wishing or fantasizing) – START TODAY. Creating urgency is the thing we all need because we take today for granted. The reality is the things you do today are what shape tomorrow for you.
Frankly I see many people as a model of how not to be. They seem miserable or at least so discontent, so mediocre. Their always acting to fit in leaving them desperate for what they really want. I’m the opposite of that. And it’s because of what I do. The formula is so simple but it’s lost on most people; do more of what pleases you and less of what doesn’t. And whatever stops you from that; either remove those things or change the way you think about them. Numerous people have asked me how I can do the things I do. It’s simple - I just do it. And whatever I have to do in my thinking in order to make that possible - I do that first. I don’t say this to impress you but impress upon you how to break away from limitations. Freedom is the only way to do whatever you want and get whatever you want. People’s own self imposed constraints are what stop them.
“There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about” - Oscar Wilde
Personal power is simply the ability to take action. If you want something and can’t go after it, the first step having is the ability to go after it – not what it actually takes to get it. Then, smart action until completion is the thing that brings success.
If you’re dysfunctional do what it takes to become functional. Life is too short. If you’re not getting what you want - enlist the aid of someone who will help you. When I really need legal assistance I don’t mess around with self –representation. And lawyers while expensive have served me well!
Whatever it is you want even if you think it will take a long time you might as well start now. Because the time will have passed anyway. Here is the great key to all of life’s successes; it is this - start today.
Tony Robbins, the most prolific coach there is, has a 5 step formula for mastery:
Now you don’t have to be a master but the things you realy want no one will give you, you’re going to have to earn them. I will help you. I don’t judge you I only support you. I’ll help you any way I can and if I can’t or it’s outside my scope I’ll make recommendations. The question I have right now is; how can you be free?
Let’s talk, contact me today.
“In every forest, on every farm, in every orchard on earth, it’s what’s under the ground that creates what’s above the ground. That’s why placing your attention on the fruits that you have already grown is futile. You cannot change the fruits that are already hanging on the tree. You can, however, change tomorrow’s fruits. But to do so, you will have to dig below the ground and strengthen the roots.” -T. Harv Eker
Captain Coaching
I’ve always heard that the key to success is persistence. Worded that way it may be a useless cliché. I’ve come to regard persistence as the vehicle of success. And the fuel is learning. Without the ability to figure out what’s working or not – and apply that knowledge to the next effort – no one is going anywhere. At least not where they want to go.
Now, my life is not what I would love it to be but I do love life! I’ve changed so much and continue to move toward my aspirations and goals. And it’s because of one simple Method of Operation; I look for opportunities, and then I take advantage of them – all the time. A lot of people don’t understand this, they think they should do what they always do, usually be reserved and they shouldn’t shine. When I did like that I did not feel good about myself.
If I lived that way I’d probably wouldn’t want to live at all, or at least I’d bide my time until I could live better. Because I tell you this – life is for living! A big problem for people is they’re worried about what others will think of them, the real problem they have is what they themselves are thinking! No one else will manifest your dreams for you, but some people will help you do it – if you ask.
“Believe that you are the one who creates your success, that you are the one who creates your mediocrity, and that you are the one creating your struggle around money and success.” - T. Harv Eker
Here’s half the solution; the time to start anything is right now. Even if it’s just planning (real written planning - not wishing or fantasizing) – START TODAY. Creating urgency is the thing we all need because we take today for granted. The reality is the things you do today are what shape tomorrow for you.
Frankly I see many people as a model of how not to be. They seem miserable or at least so discontent, so mediocre. Their always acting to fit in leaving them desperate for what they really want. I’m the opposite of that. And it’s because of what I do. The formula is so simple but it’s lost on most people; do more of what pleases you and less of what doesn’t. And whatever stops you from that; either remove those things or change the way you think about them. Numerous people have asked me how I can do the things I do. It’s simple - I just do it. And whatever I have to do in my thinking in order to make that possible - I do that first. I don’t say this to impress you but impress upon you how to break away from limitations. Freedom is the only way to do whatever you want and get whatever you want. People’s own self imposed constraints are what stop them.
“There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about” - Oscar Wilde
Personal power is simply the ability to take action. If you want something and can’t go after it, the first step having is the ability to go after it – not what it actually takes to get it. Then, smart action until completion is the thing that brings success.
If you’re dysfunctional do what it takes to become functional. Life is too short. If you’re not getting what you want - enlist the aid of someone who will help you. When I really need legal assistance I don’t mess around with self –representation. And lawyers while expensive have served me well!
Whatever it is you want even if you think it will take a long time you might as well start now. Because the time will have passed anyway. Here is the great key to all of life’s successes; it is this - start today.
Tony Robbins, the most prolific coach there is, has a 5 step formula for mastery:
- Surrender to Passion
- Practice, Practice, Practice
- Get a Guide
- Visualize the Outcome
- Play the Edge
Now you don’t have to be a master but the things you realy want no one will give you, you’re going to have to earn them. I will help you. I don’t judge you I only support you. I’ll help you any way I can and if I can’t or it’s outside my scope I’ll make recommendations. The question I have right now is; how can you be free?
Let’s talk, contact me today.
“In every forest, on every farm, in every orchard on earth, it’s what’s under the ground that creates what’s above the ground. That’s why placing your attention on the fruits that you have already grown is futile. You cannot change the fruits that are already hanging on the tree. You can, however, change tomorrow’s fruits. But to do so, you will have to dig below the ground and strengthen the roots.” -T. Harv Eker
Captain Coaching